Changing Lanes

Its weird how a death of a relative/common friend/common acquaintance can make two people who haven't spoken for ages duo to some conflict speak to each other like nothing was wrong between them in the first place. Its pathetic in my opinion. How can you console a person you don't like. If you don't like a person, you don't like that person for all eternity unless your perspective about that person was waaaay off the mark & you have a very good reason to change what you feel.

I know many people disagree with me on this but I just don't get it. Its the same in college, if a person who has not been true to you, who you don't like. How can you just go & have fun. Its like "Hey!! who cares if you don't like that person, this is fun".

After some recent events I have become more mad. People can't share ones happiness on the birth of a baby but when an elder dies everyone is meeting up & consoling that person who was closest. Its is said that when you share sadness it reduces & when you share happiness it increases. With all this sadness in this world why are people so reluctant to share other peoples happiness but are so happy to console them at times of sadness. Either do both or none at all...so that...